What Is Your Destiny?

“External reality is nothing more than a massive soup of frequencies and wavelengths. Among all those various frequencies and waves, our physical senses are only able to tune into less than a fraction of a percent of what’s actually possible to experience.”

— Anonymous 

We all have different belief systems. Everything we believe to be real about the world we live in, is really just our subjective interpretation of various phenomena.

In other words, everyone is tuned a little differently.

When we meet someone who appears to be tuned into our wavelength, it creates a natural affinity, a friendship, a kinship. We may feel as if we have known this person forever, as if we met them in a past life.

However, when we meet someone who is tuned in very differently, we may experience a sense of cognitive dissonance, feelings of discomfort and/or awkwardness. Conversations with this said individual may become stilted, instead of smooth and flowing.

We absorb ourselves in different realities every single day, testing what fits and what doesn’t fit just like trying on new clothes.

daffy duck funny

Once we begin to set our mind to search for certain ideologies, we may miss seemingly obvious details.

When someone enters our reality who operates from a different belief system, we have a tendency to judge them, possibly make fun of them, and even call them strange or weird.

In reality, they’re just tuned into a very different station than our own. It’s almost like people are tuned into different radio stations or TV channels, depending on their personal preferences and tastes. The media they consume serves to alter their belief systems along different lines of thought.

I’ve come to realize that the adult world is nothing more than a social construct that’s been developed gradually over time, a prison of the mind that limits creativity, imagination, and insight. Many people focus on the social construct, believing it’s the ultimate reality, accepting their miserable fate as another cog in society’s machine.

When I turned 18, I had an epiphany, and I realized that I didn’t want to live the life of a simple cog in the machine. I began to emulate the mindset of a rich and successful Kevin Navarro. I had a vision where I was different, possessing skills and qualities that I was missing out on right now.

If you don’t like your life, change it. Things will get better! Commit to making changes in yourself, casting out the old you and developing new habits and routines. As quickly as these new habits take hold, is the speed at which you can move towards the reality of your design.

If you figure out your destiny, the journey always works itself out…

life the cycle

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How To Change Your Life

What you perceive as the physical world, your external reality, everything that is out there… is simply an illusion. The essence of who you really are… that is real.

Albert Einstein once said, “Reality is Merely An Illusion, Albeit A Very Persistent One.”

Whatever you perceive is merely a reflection of your current state of being. Your current state of being, your current lifestyle, is defined by your core beliefs, which determine your emotions, thoughts, and actions.

In other words, if you feel nervous or insecure, everyone else will treat you like someone who is

nervous and insecure.

Reality, in my opinion, is like a playground.

Each person lives in their own little playground, consisting of events and circumstances.

And, sometimes, our brains are hard-wired to believe a certain way because of what we have been through in life.

Fortunately, our environment is constantly providing us with helpful information about the self, and about our current state of being.

Everything you perceive as outside of you, belongs to you, is connected to you, and, it tells you something special about yourself. 

The outside world is a mirror of what is currently going on within yourself.

Okay, Kevin, but what does this all mean? 

What I am trying to say is this: changing what you look like on the outside doesn’t hide what you look like on the inside.

You could change your career, move to a different country, find a different partner.

But, if you don’t change your inner state of being, you will simply keep on repeating the same life experiences again and again and again.

Believe me, I had to learn this the hard way.

hard way

The only way to change your life is to move into a state of being that corresponds with what you really want in life.

Become the man or woman you were destined to be. How would this person feel, act, talk, think? Once you have figured this out, fully move into their energy and vibration.

Change what you look like on the inside.

The rest will work itself out.

So, what is it you want to change in your life?

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Focus On The Good In Your Life

Happy Monday Everyone! Feliz Lunes!

According to Mental Health America and their affiliates, May is considered Mental Health awareness month. Mental health, in my opinion, is something everyone must care about. Most people will focus too much on their physical health, but, they tend to forget or ignore their mental health.

may mental health

Raising Mental Health Awareness is always important. Some people, especially teenagers and young adults, have problems with mental health. In the past, I have experienced mental health issues. For instance, when I was 16, I spent three days and four nights with no sleep whatsoever. I’m not sure why that happened to me. All I know is, it didn’t feel good to be in that mental state.

My family physician believes that I may have manic depression. Because of my mental health issues, I’ve been ingesting anti-convulsant medication for about three years now.

I’ve read many books and articles on mental health.  I wanted to find something that would help me understand why some people are born with a “special” brain.

What I realized is this: we are all born into this world with disadvantages and advantages. Sometimes, it will be difficult to understand why something bad

is happening to us and not to someone else. Sometimes, it may be difficult to understand why we experience so much trauma.

I believe that there is a reason for everything. I am grateful that I am alive and well.

karma

I believe in a God, in a higher power, a creator.

I read an article that claimed that a mental illness brings you closer to God, makes you more compassionate and humane:

Per the article, God and his angels are unable to feel compassion for human beings. It’s because God and his angels are a state of pure bliss; therefore, all they feel is unconditional love for every person on earth. Humans feel compassion because of suffering. Suffering is part of being human. Fortunately, you can work through pain and/or suffering.

After an accident or a traumatic experience, what you’re left with is perspective.

A different perspective or outlook on life can be a good thing.

Perspective gives you focus.

Focus on the good in your life.

focus on the good in your life

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Change The World

It’s been over a year since I first created this WordPress account. So many wonderful things have happened to me.

Everyone experiences life differently. We all grow up with different customs and beliefs. Some of us learn different languages and visit different countries around the world. Despite our vast differences, human beings are connected in the simplest of ways.

And so, no one should ever feel lonely or misunderstood.

There are billions of people in this world.

Chances are someone else is feeling the same way as you.

I know from experience how difficult growing up can be. Being different can be frustrating.

To be honest, I still am having trouble figuring life out.

I have my moments.

But, as I have said before, there’s always hope for a better future,

no matter what the circumstances are.

change the world

 

 

 

I Am My Own Creator

One of the hardest parts about being in your 20’s is the powerlessness associated with being a growing young adult…

I’m a relatively smart guy, a bit of an eccentric at times. I don’t necessarily have a girlfriend or a car or a house or fulfilling career. I live with my Mexican parents in a two-story apartment.

I will admit that my life is not the greatest right now.

glass case of emotion

Compared to other people in my age group, I’m very poor, lonely, and miserable.

twenties is hard

I feel like an old soul trapped in a young man’s body.

My two younger brothers, especially the youngest, enjoy poking fun at my odd behavior.

It’s frustrating. It really is.

I don’t consider myself to be a failure. I see myself as being ridiculously successful. In fact, I would be so successful that it’d frighten everyone who has ever known Kevin Navarro.

swimming in cash money

And yet, it’s all in my imagination at this point. It’s all in my imagination. The youngest in the Navarro family claims that I live in my own little wonderland, in my own little world of magic and make-believe.

What’s wrong with that?

this way to that way

There are all kinds of people in this world. We live in 2017. 21st century. Being persecuted for being odd does not happen anymore.

Or does it?

no right or wrong

I have learned to embrace my personality. Being odd is OK. There’s nothing wrong with it. To be honest, I believe that I am a beacon, a light for the 90’s generation.

That’s not being cocky. That’s just me being me.

me being me

I’m the first-born, the original, the beginning. Without me, my Mexican family has no start, no foundation. Without me, there is nothing, absolutely nothing.

Be yourself. Be happy with who you are. I believe that our creator knew exactly what he was doing when he chose to bring us into this world. He knew exactly what he was doing. 

I am my own creator

 

Life is…

Life doesn’t always go as planned, but that is what makes life amazing: the mystery of the unknown…

My life is kind of disorganized.

I don’t use schedules as much as I should. I guess it’s because I’m only twenty years old.

In other words, maybe schedules are for mature “grown-ups”. I still act like I’m twelve every now and then.

But what if immaturity can be a good thing? What if it isn’t my time to become an adult yet?

I wonder…

batman hmm

 

If I take a look around,

I realize that many people my age are struggling to grow up as well.

Why?

I can’t give a full answer to that question because I am still in the process of growing up.

All I can say is this: growing up isn’t easy.

It can be very painful for some.

growing up is painful

However, being an adult is necessary.

I wouldn’t like to be a kid forever:

candy for dinner

You have way more freedom when you are an adult.

more freedom

There are more fun and exciting things for you to do.

There are more responsibilities to fulfill.

And yet, being an adult was never something I looked forward to when I was little.

I didn’t think too much about it.

Then, one day, it happened.

I was a man.

And suddenly people wanted me to start acting like one.

I don’t have everything I want in life yet, but eventually I will get there.

I still have a long life ahead of me.

There are endless possibilities.

long life ahead